Friday, May 13, 2016

There's always an exit when walking through Hell

At work...me, Nueva (a girl), and LP (alpha guy) always share laughs.

5/12
Nueva ask LP for a favor. Now LP just came from an errand and is sweaty and irritated.  Nueva gave a bad vibe supposedly which then in return LP did the same. The situation quickly escalated.  I was around it as soon as it escaled and left to "stay in my lane."

When I came back LP was blaming me for not intervening and helping Nueva out with her favor, as if I already knew what it was.  I didn't. Even if I did, I cannot control what a "grown man" say and how he says it. Not my fault.

Nueva left the office and hmu to go on a "smoke break." She basically told me the same story. After we came back from smoke break, she asked whom she should talk to about the situation: her supervisors, or mine. I said one of hers and mine.

I replace her at her event b/c she wasn't feeling well, in where I told her supers that she did not come b/c the argument. They didn't know. Shit, I opened my mouth too wide.

Later I saw Nueva again and she told me how she did not mentioned to anyone about what happened, so I basically ratted  her out unintentionally.

5/13
Expecting the worst, I try to avoid Nueva but find it hard to. We talk briefly, nothing really happened. However, I caught Nueva and LP apologizing at each other.


LESSONS:

  • You can apologize after any heavy argument. Don't expect the worst, a sorry can heal many wounds.

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