Showing posts with label Arguments. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Arguments. Show all posts

Friday, May 13, 2016

There's always an exit when walking through Hell

At work...me, Nueva (a girl), and LP (alpha guy) always share laughs.

5/12
Nueva ask LP for a favor. Now LP just came from an errand and is sweaty and irritated.  Nueva gave a bad vibe supposedly which then in return LP did the same. The situation quickly escalated.  I was around it as soon as it escaled and left to "stay in my lane."

When I came back LP was blaming me for not intervening and helping Nueva out with her favor, as if I already knew what it was.  I didn't. Even if I did, I cannot control what a "grown man" say and how he says it. Not my fault.

Nueva left the office and hmu to go on a "smoke break." She basically told me the same story. After we came back from smoke break, she asked whom she should talk to about the situation: her supervisors, or mine. I said one of hers and mine.

I replace her at her event b/c she wasn't feeling well, in where I told her supers that she did not come b/c the argument. They didn't know. Shit, I opened my mouth too wide.

Later I saw Nueva again and she told me how she did not mentioned to anyone about what happened, so I basically ratted  her out unintentionally.

5/13
Expecting the worst, I try to avoid Nueva but find it hard to. We talk briefly, nothing really happened. However, I caught Nueva and LP apologizing at each other.


LESSONS:

  • You can apologize after any heavy argument. Don't expect the worst, a sorry can heal many wounds.